Why do we have a caring and loving scale of “All or Nothing?”
This happens to be the subject of our next blog because it is something I have been dealing with my entire lifetime(s). I have a control sense that if I do not do something about a situation, then it will seem I am not caring, supporting, loving to the other person. On the other hand, if I decide I no longer can maintain that environment that I am trying to create, I flop to the other end of the scale. I offer no support, no care of others and especially love of self. My self talk diminishes the ‘other’ for not understanding what I do and my self talk diminishes myself that I am uncaring, and I am unloving.
The happily ever after in our mind plagues us through control of what we want to happen and the destined features of what has to happen. What would happen if we could free up the ‘All or Nothing’ and exchange this belief system for a new one? Are we open to see it is obviously not working for us as there is pain, anxiety and anguish currently in the form and use of this belief system? Can we bargain for something close to this belief system that keeps aspects of ourselves we love and seemed to have success with? Or are we open for an overhaul understandably and a love revolution?
I surrender! My way is not working! I need an overhaul!
Perfect! Let’s get started. What would it look like if I instead took to the streets with, I love you no matter what. An unconditional love of ‘All’ and an unconditional love of ‘Nothing’. But let us change to unconditional love “no matter what’ the circumstance is.
We have entered into Love Revolution #1 advice. You can choose whether to keep this or not. Play with it, what does it feel like to have an ‘Unconditional Love No Matter What’ happens? Does this feel more in line with the authentic you?
Love Revolution #2 – can you find what it takes to be in the presence of ‘Now’? Not thinking of the past, it’s not thinking of the future, but in this instance of time.
We love that this moment can come to us. It’s with ‘Gratitude’ we have Love Revolution #3. The power of a thank you, I love you, please forgive me for creating a situation and seeing your reflection back of my own lack in loving myself and others unconditionally.
About Author:
Zodie Klempp is a Certified Energy Practitioner and author of Miasm: Sexual Abuse The Journey to Self-Enlightenment. She works with her husband, Edwin Hogendoorn, at Promoveo Energy and Wellness , located in Sylvan Lake, Alberta. They can help you with physical, emotional and mental blockages you may be experiencing from events or traumas you are willing to overcome. Through setting and balancing chakras, clearing energy, The Emotion Code, Body Code and Thought Field Therapy (TFT) Tapping, these two Energy Practitioners can help to teach you to be the healer in your own life. This will help Evolve, Embody, and Empower you. There are simple educational elements to their energy work so clients are left with tools for their own healing. Book your Free Consultation to see where they may assist you on your healing journey.
